When I say Relationship, I am talking about the one which every boy or a girl desires to get in at some phase of their life. Some lucky ones go through a single one; some less fortunate ones have to get into few more to get the right one and unlucky ones like me never even try.
Relationship is not mere being with someone for a phase of time rather it is a bond where two people commits to be with, in their happy and sad moments, says great philosophers. If you ask me, I have a little disagreement with this statement. After observing for quite a while, I believe relationship can’t be tamed. Coming into a relationship is not as difficult as it seems. When I see around, I see multiple kinds of relationship. Open relationship, Committed, Single, Friends with benefits, etc., are nothing but just the type of satisfaction one wants to give himself/herself. According to me Love can’t be restricted to one person and I am shocked when people say that I am loyal and I don’t cheat. Why loyalty, trust, and care are given so much importance when in committed relationship and why not in other type of relationships? I have seen people betraying, hiding things and much similar stuff in a relationship and still they show the world that how perfect they are. I have been with multiple partners in my life and trust me I have said them all about my past with no fear of getting judged because it helped me to be clear. But I know people who are in relationships with too many secrets. I mean if you are so scared then either don’t do anything which you can’t admit to later or don’t be in a relationship and keep your partner in dark.
I still get many opportunities to get committed but I don’t want to. Not because I am scared of sharing my past but I am worried that what if my partner is hiding something and I get to know things from someone else. The only thing which I feel right is when you are with me; don’t entertain your past partner or a new one. I am not bothered about your past but that shouldn’t affect our present in anyway. The day you feel like things are not working, say it clear on the face, it’s a harsh way but it helps to cure the wound faster. I remember that once I was even ready to be a Stepney because I was so much into that person. I lost my self-respect, my ethics and values and over the time, my beautiful love turned into a bitter experience of my life.
Being into a relationship is the most beautiful thing one can ever think of but like I said earlier, things should be crystal clear. Personal space doesn’t mean keeping your partner in dark. Say everything without the fear of losing him/her and if the love is pure, the mistakes are forgiven. And also don’t keep a notion that I have a partner so I am restricted to love, if you are happy with what you have, new things won’t bother you much and if not, don’t stop yourself.
RAHAT
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